Florida Community of Mindfulness

(Part 1 of 2)
In this Dharma talk to students at the Florida Community of Mindfulness, Fred Eppsteiner explores a Buddhist psychological framework of understanding human behavior and suffering by interpreting the classical teaching on the six realms and six poisons. Rather than focusing heavily on doctrine, Fred presents a practical lens to comprehend the causes of human suffering and societal dysfunction, emphasizing the role of poisoned consciousness in shaping our actions and relationships.

The six realms—traditionally seen as physical states—are understood here psychologically: hell (anger), hungry ghosts (greed), animals (fear and instinct), humans (attachment and desire), titans (jealousy and power), and devas (pride and pleasure). These realms represent different dominant states of consciousness and emotional afflictions, from rage to craving, ignorance, competition, and pride.

The human realm uniquely includes all these poisons but also has the capacity for self-awareness and transformation. Despite enduring teachings from Moses, Jesus, Buddha, and others emphasizing kindness and peace, humanity continues to cycle through suffering due to ignorance and attachment patterns deep within the mind. Fred suggests that external efforts—political or social—fail to resolve the root causes since these causes are internal mind states or poisons. True transformation requires recognizing and uprooting these mental poisons within ourselves.

Fred concludes with a Q&A highlighting themes such as the cyclical rather than evolutionary nature of human progress, the importance of discomfort for growth, the illusion of separateness as a root of suffering, and the ongoing challenge of addressing greed and attachment in a culture focused on consumption and external success.

In this talk to students at the Florida Community of Mindfulness, Dharma Instructor Bryan Hindert explores the Buddha’s teachings on relationships, focusing on practical guidance for cultivating harmonious, respectful, and wholesome connections with others. While much Buddhist practice centers on inward cultivation—mindfulness, meditation, and mental training—the Buddha emphasized that healthy relationships and communities are equally essential for reducing suffering and fostering well-being. Drawing from the Sangaha Sutta (the Discourse on Inclusion), Bryan presents the four foundational means the Buddha identified for sustaining favorable relationships:  giving (generosity), endearing speech, beneficent conduct, and impartiality. Healthy relationships also require discernment, boundaries, and open communication. Emphasizing skillful means, Bryan encourages experimentation and patience in cultivating these qualities in diverse social contexts. His talk combines both ethical principles and practical steps to nurture love, respect, and community harmony.

Fred Eppsteiner talks about the true meaning of taking refuge and receiving transmission of the Five Mindfulness Trainings.

In this Dharma Q&A session with students at the Florida Community of Mindfulness, Fred offers practical guidance rooted in Buddhist teachings to address everyday life challenges, meditation practice, emotional presence, and personal relationships. Key themes include skillful application of Dharma in difficult life situations (such as coping with grief and abusive familial relationships), the nature and purpose of meditation, managing emotional states like boredom and grief, and nurturing a balanced, compassionate approach to spiritual practice free from harsh self-judgment. The overall emphasis is on “engaged Buddhism”—not just understanding teachings intellectually but embodying them skillfully to improve life and alleviate suffering.

FCM was delighted and honored to host Brother Phap Khoi and five other monatics from Blue Cliff Monastery for a Weekend Family Retreat, a Day of Mindfulness, and Q&A with the Sangha.

As we observe the fourth anniversary of the passing of Venerable Thich Nhat Hanh, one of the great lights of this world, Fred shares stories and teachings from this beloved teacher.

This talk concluded a three-day "Deconstructing the Myth of Self Retreat" led by Fred, as the culmination of a one-year Intensive on this theme. In this talk, Fred teaches about the Buddha’s personal journey from prince Siddhartha Gautama to an awakened teacher who questioned why spiritual practices of his time failed to eradicate suffering. His enlightenment revealed that the self or ego is an illusion — there is no solid, independent “I” at the core of experience.

Concluding a four-day retreat they led at FCM, Roshis Chozen and Hogen Bays teach on the essence and purpose of spiritual practice in cultivating a vital, engaged, and compassionate life.

In the talk, Fred explores the teachings of the Chan master Linji, a central figure in the Zen tradition and an important influence in the lineage of Thich Nhat Hanh. Fred describes Linji’s dynamic and sometimes startling teaching methods—such as shouts or abrupt gestures—as skillful means intended to interrupt habitual thinking and help students experience reality directly rather than through concepts. Central to Linji’s teaching is the idea of the “real person of no position,” our true nature that is inherently pure, beyond all dualistic distinctions, and already present in our immediate awareness.

Fred explains that awakening depends on recognizing the awareness that is already listening and experiencing each moment, rather than searching for truth through intellectual understanding. He highlights Linji’s warning that doubt and confusion obscure this recognition, while confidence in our true nature and the development of clear discernment are essential for practice. Using Linji’s imagery of life as a kind of “magic show” in which phenomena arise and pass away, Fred encourages practitioners to look beyond the surface drama of thoughts and experiences and discover the stable awareness behind them, cultivating a direct and confident relationship with their own awakened mind.

A bridge between Easter and Buddhist insight, pointing to a deeper way of being.

In this talk, Fred explores how these two traditions meet in a shared human experience—how we face suffering, betrayal, and the possibility of transformation. Rather than focusing on doctrine, the teaching points us toward something deeply personal: how we meet the difficult moments in our own lives with awareness and compassion.

Fred talks about how even great spiritual figures—Jesus and the Buddha— encountered pain, conflict, and misunderstanding, reminding us that spiritual practice isn’t about escaping life, but learning how to be with it more fully. He also invites us to question our usual sense of self. What if the “I” we take to be so solid is actually something constructed—something we can begin to see through? This opens the door to a deeper, more spacious way of being, though not without challenge.

Along the way, Fred guides us through a simple, practical exercise—an invitation to gently explore a different way of showing up in life, with patience and a bit of playfulness.

Finally, he reflects on forgiveness and understanding: how seeing others through the lens of causes and conditions can soften reactivity and support a more compassionate response, even in the face of hurt.